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Is it hard for you to trust God in difficult times? Frankly, trust does not come easily for most of us, especially when we are asked to believe in something we can’t see. But that is exactly what God asks us to do, even when it doesn’t make sense–at all.
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In a time of suffering, I asked God to help me understand why He puts us through hard times. It seemed almost cruel to me. In His sovereignty, He gave me a word picture to help explain things from His perspective.
Strangely, He answered through a squash plant. Weird, I know.
In this post, I am going to help you understand why you can trust God in difficult times. By the end of the word picture, you may finally understand why bad things happen and see it from a difficult perspective.
How Do You Trust God When Life Is Hard?
It takes a strong person to trust God in difficult times. Instead, most people ask, “Why me?” Let me answer with a word picture. It may give you a better perspective from God’s point of view.
Not too long ago, my sister texted a picture of a nasty squash vine borer; she was doing surgery to remove the bugs. Days earlier, she noticed her squash plant would bloom, but then it would drop its flowers. Unfortunately, no flowers meant no fruit.
My sister was confused by the behavior of this plant; it looked so healthy. It had a big root at the base, lots of growth, and the leaves were a nice green color. Most of all, the plant was enormous in size.
In fact, it was so big, it was crowding out the other plants on the trellis who were actually producing fruit. Not only that, but it was also sucking precious nutrients.
After a thorough inspection, she noticed a gooey mess toward the bottom of the plant.
Looking more closely, she found the enemy was a squash vine borer. It bored its way into the stalk and was insidiously eating the plant from the inside out. Gross.
To make matters worse, it was leaving this disgusting, oozy mess that was actually the borer’s poop.
Since my sister has an organic garden, her choices for dealing with the problem (the enemy) were limited. She could improve the soil, do surgery/pick out the squash borers, or let it die.
Messy, Smelly Surgery On the Plant
My sister chose to do surgery the day she texted the picture. It was very tedious work, but necessary if she wanted to save the plant.
The surgery involved using a sharp knife to cut open the stalk. She had to dig around looking for the squash borers, using tweezers to tediously pick them out.
Then she had to kill the borers so they wouldn’t come back to eat the vine.
The surgery was messy. If you look closely, you can see the gooey mess on the utensils.
To make matters worse, it had a horrible smell (borer poop) when she opened up the stalk. It was not a pleasant experience but necessary to save the plant. She pulled out 5 borers. Wow!
Here is one she found lurking on the ground right by the plant. See how it was camouflaged! How tricky.
Here (look below) is what the plant looked like after she cleaned it out completely. It had a big hole, but there was a better chance the squash plant would live and bear fruit.
After surgery, my sister added more compost to the roots. She will continue to deal with the root problem in the days to come with good soil.
Healthy soil is a long-term remedy for keeping predators away.
Here is an interesting fact: When a plant is weak, it actually attracts predators to come and eat it. This is nature’s way of dealing with a sick plant. Otherwise, we would have millions of decomposing plants sitting around on the ground.
Do You Have Faith In God In Difficult Times?
So what does the squash plant have to do with how we need to trust God in difficult times?
When I looked at the squash vine borer and all the damage it was doing, I understood why my sister decided to cut the plant. It was an act of love to save the squash vine from being pulled up and thrown into the compost pile.
Here is the rub. This is not much different than what God does with us.
He sees when we have been infected by our enemy, Satan (squash borer). If we allow it, the Master Gardener (God) will go in and do surgery.
The knife He uses is usually in the form of a trial. We get cut, and it hurts.
We think God is being mean to us when, in fact, He is trying to save us so one day we will produce fruit. Unfortunately, we are so blind that we don’t see we are being eaten alive by our own sins. And wallowing in our own stinky mess.
Sadly, it feels like we can’t trust God in difficult times.
To add insult to injury, we miss the fact that Satan is lurking at our doorstep constantly waiting to do more damage just like the borer who was camouflaged near the roots.
God, in His love, is trying to clean things up and strengthen us at the roots with good soil (His word). After I pondered this situation for a while, I finally decided I could trust God in difficult times. In fact, I can trust the process of His plan when I look at it from His point of view.
This may help you understand why bad things happen.
What Does the Bible Say About Trusting God In Difficult Times?
Did you know the Bible says to count it all joy when we have a trial (James 1:2-4).
Trust AND joy. That is a lot to ask of a person. Check out these other verses about faith and trust in God:
Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Psalms 34:17-18 When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.
Nahum 1:7 The Lord is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; he knows those who take refuge in him.
Psalm 9:9 The Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.
We can trust God in difficult times because He is good. You can clearly see this from the scriptures listed.
He wants to purify us by getting rid of the problem. Unfortunately, surgery is painful.
Then we complain because we think God doesn’t love us. Isn’t it ironic that we don’t realize we are the ones who created the mess in the first place by allowing the sin?
We can trust God in difficult times to remove whatever is hindering our growth. Otherwise, we are useless in His garden and will be pulled up and sent to the compost pile.
Do you have a few squash vine borers in your life?
We all do at one time or another. There is no judging here. Let God remove them. Trust that His cutting is a good thing. And, hopefully, one day you will rejoice when it is over and you are healed from the trial.
How Do You Praise God In Difficult Times?
It is so hard to trust God in difficult times. Moreover, it is even more difficult to praise Him. Many times I play praise and worship music when I am going through a difficult time. It gets my mind off my problems and puts my focus on God.
I worship Him through the trial.
Another thing I do is pray. I love to pray scripture back to God Check out this post. It will help you understand how to do this.
Whatever you do, get the focus off of you and back on God. Realize He is good, and always wants to help you be the best person possible. Many times, He uses trials to make this happen.
How do you trust God in difficult times? Share it in the comments.
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