School Hacks: How to Pick the Best School for Your Child

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Here are the best school hacks to help you find the right school for your child. In fact, these tips will help if you are changing schools too. I’ve got you covered either way.

I am a teacher and mom who has taught in private school, public school, and I have also homeschooled.  Furthermore, my kids have attended these three school options so I have the perspective of both mom and teacher.

We can tell you first-hand the pros and cons of each type of school you may be considering. Whatever you choose, realize there is no perfect school. You are simply looking for the best fit at this time.

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1. Large selection of classes. Most schools offer Theater, Art, Dance, Gymnastics, Swimming, Architecture, etc. There is an opportunity for your child to try about any and everything. You name it, they probably have it. My son acquired a boater’s license through one of his classes. He was elated.

2. Friends are close in proximity. There is not a lot of driving when it comes to play-dates.  Your child’s friends will be within about a 0 – 10-mile radius. It is nice to drop off and pick up within a 15-20 minute time span.

3. Multiple facilities. Our public high school has a large baseball field, football field, a practice field, multiple locker rooms, swimming pool, several gyms, a large auditorium with high tech lighting, classrooms with technology, etc.

Because a public school is funded by the government, there is more money to meet the needs of the students.

4. Teachers are licensed. Teachers are required to have a license to teach in a public school. Both of my kids had excellent teachers almost all the way through.

I had my kids in public school for about 8-9 years. In all that time, I can count maybe 1 or 2 teachers who were not acceptable at teaching their subject.



1. Teachers do not reinforce biblical values.  Public schools are void of teaching any real values and morals in the classroom. It is illegal to pray in class, have the 10 commandments on the wall, or to acknowledge God due to the separation of church and state.

This may not be a problem for some. Personally, I found it disheartening.

2. Safety. To this date, the school shootings have only been in a public school. This doesn’t mean private schools are immune. The problem is public schools cannot be selective about who enters their doors. They take any and everyone.

3. Drugs, alcohol, promiscuity. Illegal and immoral activity seems to be normal for most kids.  We found many parents were okay with it.

School Hack: These problems may give you pause to think twice about public school. It may not be the best school for your child. It was difficult to navigate through the lack of morality, but my kids grew from the conflict.

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1. Freedom to teach values and morals. The teachers and administration have the freedom to pray and talk about values and morals. They constantly reinforce them biblically which is nice.

This does not eliminate the drug, alcohol, and promiscuity, but it does give your child a chance to hear about a better way to live.

2. Academics. Academics are strong in most private schools because the teachers don’t have to stop for a lot of discipline issues. They can present material and teach the full allotted time.

3. Small class size. Most private schools keep their class ratio small. In my experience, it has been around 22:1 or less. This allows for more individual instruction. In some cases, the honors courses will be even smaller. This is almost as good as private tutoring.

4. Quality of families. Students and families are vetted. There is a long application process and interviews before a student is accepted. This makes it easier to connect with other like-minded families who reinforce the same values at home that you do.

5. Sports. In a small school, your child will get to play everything. This can be a huge benefit if you know your child has the kind of athletic ability that may get overlooked in a big school.

School Hack: There is more of a chance for your child to get an athletic scholarship at a division two school if he is a superstar in a smaller pool.

Related: 9 Character Qualities Your Child Needs to be Successful at School



1. Cost of tuition. The cost of tuition is usually high. This makes it impossible for the majority of people to have access to a private school education unless scholarships are given.

2. Lack of facilities. There are no public tax dollars going to a private school. This means everything has to be built with private funding.

Many private schools have been around for a while, so they have had a chance to grow. Other private schools still struggle to keep up with the same kind of quality facilities as a public school.

3. Class and sports variety. The number of classes or the variety of sports may not be as extensive as a public school. Small schools don’t always have the money to fund specialized teachers or multiple sports.

This may not be the best school for your child if your student has a unique gift such as swimming, gymnastics, etc.

4. Can be used as a reform school. Many private schools are less picky about their enrollment because they need money. Students who have been kicked out of public school end up in private school.

It is a great opportunity for a second chance, but if the student does not take advantage of this gift, it can be a big problem.

5. Spoiled children. Private school caters to a wealthier group of people. This means there are spoiled children who may act entitled. This problem is everywhere, but it is more pronounced in private schools.

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1. You are the teacher. You decide the curriculum. It is really fun to have complete control over what your child learns. There is an opportunity to present material that would never be talked about in a public or private school.

When I homeschooled, we did a lot of field trips. That was really fun.

2. Safety. There is a 0% chance of a school shooting, your child being bullied, or ever feeling threatened by another student. This may be the best school for your child just to keep him out of harm’s way.

3. Opportunity for outside development. Many parents have opted to homeschool because their child is gifted in an area. For instance, a gymnast or an ice skater would have more time for practice.

School Hack: Even if your child is not especially gifted, she can make more time for ballet, horseback riding, part-time job or internship. There is also extra time for family vacations during the offseason. We went to Disney World offseason which was nice!

4. College Advancement. Starting junior year, your child could be eligible to take courses at the local junior college for free. Yes, it is free until 18 years old in Dallas, Texas. (Books are not included.) Check with your local junior college to see if your area has the same program.


1. Lack of social interaction. I have noticed students who are homeschooled struggle socially. The longer they have been homeschooled, the harder it is for them to translate social cues.

They do pretty well one on one, but group situations are next to impossible for them to navigate. This could really hamper your child long term on getting a job and making friends.

2. Teaching quality. Many parents think they are qualified to teach any and all subjects at every level. Or believe there is a video to teach the material. While it is true there is a video, it doesn’t allow for questions, feedback, and individualized reinforcement of the material.

School Hack: There are very few people who are truly qualified at all levels. When your child enters junior high and/or high school, I recommend you supplement with a tutor or join a homeschool group that offers classes in advanced material.

3. Depression. Some students become depressed because they are isolated from peers their own age. As much as you would like siblings or the occasional church friend to be their buddy, it is just not enough interaction.

Homeschooling may not be the best option for kids who are highly social. I know this first hand.

4. No dances and/or sporting events. Missing out on dances may not be a big deal. There is a lot of needless drama and money spent on one night. However, it is important to make sure your child is active.

Playing a team sport not only helps your child get exercise, but it teaches teamwork and social skills.

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How to Pick the Best School For Your Child

Charter, Magnet, or Montessori School Hacks

1. Charter schools.  They were established in 1995. In the last 10-15 years, these schools have become recognized as a viable alternative to public schools and could be the best school for your child.  It is interesting to note they have gained traction in areas where the public schools are failing to do their job.

Charter schools are still funded by the government, but they have fewer state laws governing them. The reduced legislation allows them more flexibility to be creative in the way they run the school.

Many of them have the feel of a private school. I have read about some of them using a classical (liberal arts) or Montessori approach while other charter schools only offer online classes with a teacher-facilitator.

Some charter schools are great.

Other schools are more of a receptacle for kids who have been kicked out of school for behavior issues, teens who are going back to get a GED, or students who are suffering from a health issue.

It is worth checking out the ones in your area to see if they meet the standards you have set for your child’s educational needs.

2. Magnet schools. They are an extension of the public school. They specialize in dance, art, music, law, science, agriculture, etc. The majority of these schools are academically selective.

I know several people who have their kids in a magnet school. Many go on to prestigious colleges and become very successful. It is definitely a good opportunity for a child to attend one of these schools given the opportunity.

3. Montessori schools. It is a teacher-directed education geared toward children who love to learn. Kids are given lots of freedom to learn through play and discovery. Its primary philosophy is to teach using all 5 senses.

I have neither taught nor had my children attend this type of learning environment. I do think it is a wonderful way to learn when a child is young. It’s not for everyone.

School Hack: Montessori Schools fall under the private school category mostly, but as I said, there have been charter schools who use this model. It is a good school choice for those kids who are more of a self-starter and can handle lots of freedom.

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Last Thoughts on Picking the Best School.

These are the best school hacks for picking a school for your child whether you are just starting or are changing schools. Another resource I found is Great Schools. It is a legitimate indicator of a school’s overall quality.

It shouldn’t be the only thing you use, but it is wise to consider it as a valuable piece in your analysis.

Remember, what you pick now may be a good fit for one child, but it may not be the best fit for a sibling. Be willing to adjust educational options as your family changes and grows

If you are thinking about changing schools, it is wise to ask about the characteristic of your child’s potential class. Consult teachers, administrators, and friends who already have children attending the school.

Hopefully, they will be forthright with you. This is especially important if you are choosing a private school with a class size under 50 students in each grade.

Some classes have mean girls or bullies. If the class is not characterized as nice, consider another option.

A couple of bullies or mean girls can destroy an otherwise perfectly good group. I have seen it happen over and over again. They are toxic and can make the class environment unbearable.

Last, but not least, pray for direction. God clearly showed us what to do with each of our children. I would have loved for both of them to attend the same school for all 13 years, but we moved.

There was no choice in our change. It all worked out in the end. My kids would tell you they have great memories of every school venue.

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  1. Caitlin Downs on March 30, 2018 at 3:39 pm

    I live in Chile, and the school is a bit different here. If you want a quality education, you have to go to a private school, which almost all are religious. Which, is a pro or con depending on who you are. I am not really looking forward to the interviews that go along with it….starting at 3-4 years old!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:15 pm

      Oh wow. So interesting to know how other countries do things. The interviews are long and tedious but I am glad they screen their students. That’s sad you have to pay private tuition to get a good school. Thanks for reading.

  2. Lynn on March 30, 2018 at 12:45 pm

    Great info for us Grandmother’s too!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:16 pm

      Haha. Well, who knows. Maybe your grandkids could use this info.

  3. Amy Tol on March 29, 2018 at 11:58 am

    What a great round-up of pros/cons for all the school choices available. I still remember when we were selecting our kids’ schools and how stressful it felt. It’s a blessing to have so many wonderful options in our country, but it does make the choice difficult. What a great resource you’ve offered for those going through this process!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:17 pm

      Thanks. I’m so glad I’m done with this part of parenting. It was tough figuring out where to live and what school to attend.

  4. Holly @ Granola on the Side on March 28, 2018 at 12:01 pm

    This is great. Very well though out and a great resource.

  5. Anissa on March 27, 2018 at 9:30 pm

    Although my children are 20 plus I find this Information very informative. When my kids were in school, I requested special transfers to send them to schools outside of my jurisdiction because I knew that the neighborhood schools were not a good fit for them. I took into consideration friends, academics, social activities and sports. My neighbor homeschooled and I thought that was awesome! This is a great article!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:19 pm

      Thanks. These decisions are very tedious. I always felt so responsible for my kids success at their school. I did my homework, but you can’t plan for the unexpected.

  6. Kiwi on March 27, 2018 at 7:35 pm

    I dont have kids yet but public school doesnt seem like the best option anymore. Charter/Magnet and Montessori school seems like the best options!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:21 pm

      I think they are wonderful options. They are worth checking out. Each school and class is different. You just don’t know for sure until you look.

  7. Sondra Barker on March 27, 2018 at 12:59 pm

    This is a great resource for parents looking to educate their children. One school I love in my area is Page Academy. I recommend it to every parent!!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:21 pm

      So glad you have a great local school. It is so nice when it is close and they perform well. Thanks for reading.

  8. Rebecca Rice on March 27, 2018 at 11:17 am

    My husband and I plan of starting a family in the next five years and this post was great to find! My husband sees no problem in the public schooling system, I on the other hand went to a private school all my life including college so clearly I lean more towards that. I believe that when you are paying tuition for a school, parents take more responsibility for their children’s actions. However, I have noticed that in some of the public school in my area that blaming the school is the first thing done rather than the children for acting poorly. It is a toss up based on what is right for your child! I also think it is important to remember that not one choice is going to be perfect so it is important to talk this decision over and make sure you do your research!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:29 pm

      Yes, I had the same problem. My husband thought the public was fine, but I wanted private. I’m glad we did mostly public because of the cost savings. Each of my kids had a few years of private when we felt it was important. Terrible decisions to make.

  9. Jaime / The Q Word on March 27, 2018 at 11:16 am

    I really appreciate that you reinforce the idea that there is no such thing as perfect – just the BEST fit, setting a realistic expectation.

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:24 pm

      Thanks. I try hard to give realistic advice. Picking the right school is hard. I hope my errors helps others from making the same mistake.

  10. Erica on March 27, 2018 at 8:45 am

    Great timing on this post! I’ve been thinking a lot about schools for my little ones…even though it’s REALLY early, but there is so much to consider! Thank you for posting this awesome resource!

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:26 pm

      Good luck on the choice. You’d be surprised how fast the school thing creeps up on you. Hope you make great decisions. Thanks for reading.

  11. Stephanie on March 27, 2018 at 6:44 am

    Great post! Our baby boy is 12 months now, and we have really been going back and forth on what our best option will be. Stay in our county and put him in private school, or move to another county and choose public school. This article really gave me some more pros and cons to look into! Thanks for sharing!

    • Julie Plagens on March 27, 2018 at 6:52 am

      I am glad I was able to help. It’s such a hard decision. I know you will do the very best thing for your child.

    • Julie Plagens on March 31, 2018 at 9:28 pm

      I’m glad you have the choice to move if you want. Private is really a lot of money. I know we would have loved to have done more private, but it’s the best we could do. Thanks for reading.

  12. Dee at My Dee Dees Diary on March 27, 2018 at 12:28 am

    This is such great information. choosing the right school for your children is so important especially now

    • Julie Plagens on March 27, 2018 at 6:53 am

      Thanks for reading. I’ve read quite a few of your blogs and enjoy them.

  13. Suzanne on March 26, 2018 at 2:44 pm

    This is so informative! Thanks for sharing 🙂

  14. Patricia-Ann Que on March 26, 2018 at 2:26 pm

    what a great article! i do not have kids but this is a topic i hear very frequent! will surely share this and i love that it is a pov of a teacher!

  15. Mirlene | Savory Thoughts on March 25, 2018 at 4:35 pm

    Great article. Especially for new parents who are looking for great schools for their child/children. We, on the other hand, we visited 3 schools in our area with our children and allow them to make the choice which school they felt most comfortable in. Luckily they chose the same school.

    • Julie Plagens on March 27, 2018 at 6:55 am

      Yes, the kids definitely need to have some input. Good point. They’re the ones going every day. Thanks for reading.

  16. Ioana Minciu on March 25, 2018 at 2:37 pm

    This is such a great article. I don`t have kids, but I would have never thought that there are so many aspects that need to be taken into consideration.

    • Julie Plagens on March 27, 2018 at 6:56 am

      You can believe the things you have to consider. Vaccines is another big issue for some people. It just goes on and on!

  17. Elisa on March 25, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Great pros and cons for every type of school! I do not plan on having children but if I did want children I know I would have a hard time deciding what to do. Thanks for helping many new moms out there!

    • Julie Plagens on March 27, 2018 at 6:56 am

      Well, atleast you don’t have to worry about school choice! Thanks for reading.

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